Four Tips for the Broken-Hearted

Certainly, Love is one of the most powerful feeling in this world. With Love we can be like flying into the air and playing in the rainbow with that super amazing feeling. But the sad reality is, when we talk of love, it is most often accompanied with pain and sufferings which make it worst. When we are broken we sometimes do the unusual things to release the anger and pain inside us. And so because of this, I researched some tips regarding how to somehow overcome this awful feeling of broken heart. The tips is from Andrea Syrtash, ONDating. Here we go.

1. Write down a list of your five 'must-haves' and five 'can't-stands' for your future partner. It can be as silly as wanting to date someone who loves to dance or as serious as wanting to be with somebody of the same faith. If it is important to you, include it in your list.
2. Make new relationship resolutions.
   
   Try to identify how certain fears influenced your last relationship, and decide whether you're prepared to take steps to face those fears.
   Try to identify how certain fears influenced your last relationship, and decide whether you're prepared to take steps to face those fears. For instance, if you feared losing your independence in your last relationship, how will you cope in your next one so that you don't feel you have lost yourself while in a partnership?
3. Ask yourself, "Why did you stay as long as you did?" Were there moments when you knew it wasn't working? How did you deal with it? What would you do differently if you did it again?
4. Allow yourself to grieve in a way that's comfortable to you. For some, playing sad love songs and spending many nights inside with Ben and Jerry feels best. For others, jumping into the dating game in a casual way and having fun is a good way to cope.

And so we must also realize that these facts are just tips. The best tips we can get is from our own self, own feelings and own emotion that will definitely give us an idea on what to do. We know ourselves better.

Happy LIFE!